Enhance the relationship of Parent-Child in 8 ways.

The relationship that we build with our parents is something different from when we came to this world; they are the ones who taught us what the world looks like! Sometimes, you may even question certain things, but ultimately you look up to them to know if you are secure or loved. That’s the foundation from where you built the other relationships around you as we move ahead in life for a relationship.

By being present at the moment with the children, a parent can build a positive relationship by spending some time and, of course, creating an environment around them where they feel safe. There is no perfect way to work this relationship out, but certainly, it can improve through the hardships that take a toll on you!

Here’s how you can work it out!

Listen to them and as well empathise.

We bond when we connect, and that happens when you listen to them! Be in their shoes and understand their feelings. Let them know you acknowledge it and let them know that you can help them when they need you. Because they are young doesn’t mean their words should be ignored. To build mutual respect, empathizing with them is also necessary. Like how other problems seem big, prioritize their feelings in the same manner. 

Give them your love!

Some parents control and have lost the sense of showing love. And some just keep yelling at the imperfections. They miss many things by not showing the love they deserve no matter what; it’s about your kids, whom else will they expect it from? Scientifically for the development of neurobiological development and indeed for emotional health, love and affection are needed. They also need gentle touch that caresses them. So start giving them eye to eye attention, a smile, and warmth when you interact with them. Know that every opportunity to interact is a way for bonding with them. 

Set some boundaries that you think are necessary while they develop.

When they see the world, it is entirely new to them. Children need some assistance as they grow. As a parent, one must not expect from their kids. It hinders their ability to succeed. Tell them the possibilities that exist, not the way, as it’s up to them to explore those possibilities and learn. But surely, let them know what’s appropriate for their age and what is not. 

Express that you love them!

You might see them as grown-ups, but it doesn’t mean you can’t express that you love them though it is obvious, but just for them to know every day. Even at times, they do things you don’t like; tell them you love them! Cause that has an impact that you can’t imagine.

Make sure you are available for them without any distractions.

Though no matter what distractions come your way, let them know you have time for them to have quality time with you. So, just keep aside the electronic gadgets and talk to them at least 10 minutes a day. Let them know you prioritize them to give them enough time they ask for!

Why not have a ritual between you?

If; tell you to have more than just one child, make a deal to yourself that you would spend time with each one of them! The conversation face to face can strengthen your bond in the long run. Give them ease to speak up. They understand that you treat them special! Why not celebrate their existence and not forget they are a part too? Make a day only to watch a movie or, let’s say, a trip to their favorite place? Value their desires too.

Play with them while they are enjoying it!

Why play with them? That is only when they express, develop language skills, socialize and even be creative! So without minding what you play, make a relationship with your child stronger as playing is fun! Don’t think about anything else; just enjoy playing the game!

Eating time!

At times you are enjoying a great meal; why have a cell phone or music player? Make them enjoy each other’s company, and that’s the best time to have conversations about something new they learned or that fascinates them. Try to keep the conversation lively and exciting and not off the table as they shouldn’t be disappointed while having a meal. And educate them on the importance of eating healthy and balancing it!

Few Thoughts

Stop judging your children for every mistake they make. That’s not the end of the world. We all learn by falling, and that’s the uniqueness of how things are created. There is nothing called a perfect life! So don’t expect and hinder them; let; tell them to make their own choices and decisions as and when they grow old appropriately.